Gift buying at Christmas hasn’t been a real issue in my family for many years now. We’re all fortunate enough to be able to buy ourselves whatever we want throughout the year, so not only is buying gifts for one another a complete nightmare at Christmas, but an exercise in futility much of the time. What we decided to do was save that money we’d spend on gifts and just spend it all on food and drinks that we could all enjoy together. This idea works great when you’re all adults, but for kids it’s a different story. I’m not so sure they’d appreciate the real Italian panettone one aunt brought over, and especially not the aged single malt whiskey grandpa treated everyone to. So there will always be some gifts that need to be bought at Christmas.
For people that are chronically ill, this is also the time of the year where we’re able to show our appreciation for those that have supported us and our illness throughout the year, be they carers or friends and family members. Here is what I would suggest:
- It can be easy to be overwhelmed with wanting to buy the perfect gift that reflects just how much the receiver means to you. This is especially true if you want to thank someone for the way they have cared and supported you through your illness. Don’t worry too much; they obviously understand how ill you are and will appreciate the very fact that you got them anything and you can also include a note with the gift with just a few words expressing your gratitude. This will elevate the value of any gift card or bottle of wine you buy them.
- Don’t wait until the last minute to do your Christmas shopping! That’s good advice for everyone, but when health and energy are not something that can be relied upon, you probably won’t be able to rush out on Christmas Eve and pick up something last minute. Write out your gift giving plan well in advance and buy what you can early.
- I don’t know about you, but I cannot handle crowds. Braving the shops at weekends let alone during the peak of Christmas shopping is just not something that I can even contemplate. This is where the internet is your friend! You can buy just about anything online and many places even offer free delivery and returns, so do your shopping from the comfort of your own home. I’ve had my nephew’s Christmas gift in the cupboard since October.
- While some people are just hopeless when it comes to wrapping Christmas presents, the chronically ill can have real problems with the required dexterity and energy to get the job done. Take advantage of any offers to gift wrap items before they are sent out. If you don’t want to do this, because you’d like to inspect them first, skip the usual wrapping paper route, and just loosely wrap in coloured tissue paper and give in a festive gift bag or box.
Good luck with the gift buying – hopefully you’ll be more or less done by now and won’t have broken the bank or your body with the spending and effort!